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Updated: May 28, 2026

If a family member is detained by ICE

First steps in the first hours — finding where they are, what you can ask, and what to do before signing or paying anyone.

This article is general information, not legal advice. Immigration Attorney Connector is not a law firm. Please consult a licensed immigration attorney for guidance on your specific situation.

If a family member has just been detained by ICE, the first hours can feel impossible. This article tries to give you a clear set of first steps — what to do, what to ask, and what to avoid — so you can move with some structure.

1. Find out where they are

Use the ICE online detainee locator at locator.ice.gov. You can search by A-number (alien registration number) or by name, date of birth, and country of birth. It can take up to a day for someone to appear in the system after detention.

2. Write down what you know

  • Date, time, and place where they were detained
  • Who told you, and what they said exactly
  • Any paper that was shown or left at the place of detention
  • Names and badge numbers of any officers you can identify

This information is useful to any attorney who reviews the case. Do not throw away envelopes, copies of documents, or notes.

3. Talk to a real immigration attorney before signing anything

People in detention are sometimes asked to sign documents that waive important rights — including the right to see a judge and the right to fight the case. Do not let your family member sign a voluntary departure form, or anything they do not fully understand, until they have spoken with an immigration attorney.

This is also the time to be careful about notario fraud. People who promise quick releases or guaranteed results in exchange for cash are often not licensed to help. See our article on how to find a real immigration attorney for what to verify.

4. Understand bond, if it is offered

ICE may set a bond, or a judge may set one at a bond hearing. The bond is the amount that must be paid to release the person while their case continues. An attorney can help argue for a lower bond and can explain whether bond is available in your family member's situation.

5. Take care of yourself, too

Many cities have community organizations that help families with members in detention — including counseling, food assistance, and connections to legal help. You are not alone, even though it feels that way right now.

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